Category: Victor

Barking Dogs

You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.

— Winston Churchill —

“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.” ~Winston Churchill

Victor or Victim

People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I do not believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they cannot find them, make them.

— George Bernard Shaw —

So true.  I quit playing the “circumstance blame-game” many years ago. In all situations we have the opportunity to play the role of victor or victim. Which role do you play? Do you make things happen or do you watch things happen…and then complain about it? Do you find opportunity in the problem or do…

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Victory over Blame

A man may make mistakes, but he doesn't become a failure until he blames someone else.

— John Wooden —

“A man may make mistakes, but he doesn’t become a failure until he blames someone else.”  ~John Wooden There are victims and there are victors. Victims have an excuse for everything that goes wrong and they usually blame others for their lot in life. Victors have an eye for creating opportunity when something goes wrong…

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Purpose & Life Happens

You were born to be real, not to be perfect.

— Unknown —

  I was talking with a coachee the other day and he was lamenting about some health issues a loved one was facing.  He began going down the path of asking himself what he had done wrong in order to deserve this punishment he was receiving from God. I quickly steered him back on the…

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Counsel

Form your purpose by asking for counsel, then carry it out using all the help you can get.

— Proverbs 20:18 (MSG) —

  Nothing great in life happens by doing it alone. If you are trying to make the most of yourself it will not happen without surrounding yourself with wise counsel. Sometimes the most powerful three words we can say are, “I need help.” Who are you listening to? Who are you talking with? Who is…

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Unlearning is Learning

Intelligent people are always open to new ideas. In fact they look for them.

— Proverbs 18:15 (NLT) —

  The other day I was working with a young man who has decided to head in a new direction in his profession.  He had spent his past several years with a very well known and highly regarded organization.  During our talk he said, “Jay I’ve learned a ton of great things over the past…

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Forgive instead of Hurt

Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me.

— Anonymous —

  It is impossible to make the most of ourselves if we hold onto old “hurts.” Grudges and resentments are the devil’s way of preventing us to live out our God Purpose to our fullest. What do you need to let go of? P.E.A.C.E. Jay@EagleLaunch.com Mark 11:25, “And when you stand praying, if you hold…

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Character

Character isn't something you were born with and can't change, like your fingerprints. It's something you weren't born with and must take responsibility for forming.

— Jim Rohn —

  Character is the ability to handle the demands of reality without cheating or taking short cuts. It is staying true to your principles when the world tells you principles are “things of the past.” Character is formed when we are doing what we know we need to do when we don’t want to do…

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Fools

Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain and most fools do.

— Ben Franklin —

  Take that one to the bank. P.E.A.C.E. Jay@EagleLaunch.com James 5:9, “Do not grumble against one another, brothers, so that you may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing at the door.”  (ESV)

Success and Action

Success seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving forward. They make mistakes, but they don't quit.

— Conrad Hilton —

  There is nothing I can add to this other than the fact that success is usually found in giving something one more try. Do you give up too easily or do you continue to fight and move forward? P.E.A.C.E. Jay@EagleLaunch.com Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”  (ESV)