Priorities & Setbacks

The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit.

— Nelson Henderson —

  During the Great Depression a young boy recalls going with his father on more than one occasion to visit a local banker in his hometown of Piqua, Ohio. The boy remembers sitting in a room by himself while peering through the window into the banker’s office as his father listened intently to the banker…

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Priorities & Change

If you do not change direction, you may end up where you're heading.

— Lao Tzu —

  I asked my Facebook friends to complete a survey about what prevents us from changing habits. In other words we have a desire to change and we know what to do in order to change, but we just can’t continue to do what we need to do in order to make the change a…

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Find Out Why

The two most important days of your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why.

— Mark Twain —

  Reflect on Twain’s quote above. Life is too short to not take the time to figure out why God made you (your purpose) and in turn design a life around your “why.” The world runs at warp speed today and if we don’t step back and decide what we want to do with our…

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Strengths & Genius

Passion is the genesis of genius.

— Galileo Galilie —

  I consider myself very fortunate to be able to do what I love to do today. My goal is to help you find the place in your life where what you do intersects with what you love to do.  In this intersection lies your passion, lots of energy and genius according to Galileo. I…

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Strengths & Others

The gifts given to each individual are given not only for the one who receives, but also for those who can benefit when the gift is shared with others.

— Elder Robert D. Hales —

  This is day 19 on our journey of building our life playing field and today we will take a closer look at the strengths and gifts the Good Lord has blessed us with. Just like our guiding principles, our strengths and gifts help create key boundaries/guidelines on our playing field. I like the quote…

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Strengths & Gifts to Live By

Let us live so that when we come to die, even the undertaker will be sorry.

— Mark Twain —

  I love the quote above.  What a great way to live! Designing your own personal playing field of life is a great way to enable yourself to live the way Twain is referring to in his quote. Identifying and leveraging our God-given gifts and strengths are critical steps in designing our life playing field….

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Strengths & Acceptance

Your talent is God's gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.

— Leo Buscaglia —

  Continued from February 16… Later that evening I asked Jeff, who was a psychologist, about the situation with me standing on the chair and why he told me he didn’t think I belonged in the circle sitting on my chair with the rest of my family. He said something to this extent; “Dude you’ve…

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Strengths & Why Me?

Your talent is God's gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.

— Leo Buscaglia —

  It was family week at Greene Hall Chemical Dependency Center back in the summer of 1987, (and no I wasn’t on staff there I was a patient) and one of the counselors, “Jeff” had our family go through an exercise I will never forget. He had my family create a circle around me.  We…

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Purpose & Pain

Sometimes our life purpose is found in our most painful life moments.

— JJM —

  Today is the start of the third week in our journey of building a playing field for our life. By the end of this process you will have nailed down your guiding principles, gifts/strengths, priorities and passions.  Through this process you will gain clarity around your life purpose as well as create a dream…

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Purpose & Life Happens

You were born to be real, not to be perfect.

— Unknown —

  I was talking with a coachee the other day and he was lamenting about some health issues a loved one was facing.  He began going down the path of asking himself what he had done wrong in order to deserve this punishment he was receiving from God. I quickly steered him back on the…

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