Crushing Fear – Day 37 – Instant Gratification

The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now.

— Zig Ziglar —

DSC_1271 - CopyAs my first business partner often reminded me, “slow and steady wins the race.”

It’s amazing how many great things have happened in my life when I’ve overcome the urge to give into short-term fixes.

The devil loves for us to act impulsively as it often prevents us from achieving the great things God has in store for us.

Just like Distractions (see my March 29th Blog), instant gratification grows from a fear of missing out (FOMO).  We are afraid if we don’t act now we are going to miss out on something good.

Jim Collins once said, “Good is the enemy of great.”

Choosing to wait and seek out God’s direction and guidance instead of giving into my impulses and emotions in the moment, has saved me quite often from settling for “short term good’s,” when God had “long term great’s” waiting for me.

Our flesh desires good.  God desires great.

It’s amazing how far we can get ahead in life by simply denying the desires of our flesh one day at a time.

Some of us struggle with delineating between “flesh” and God.  The same decision making steps I shared with you in my post on Indecision last week are also useful in discerning between our human desires and the desires God has for us.

  1. Is the action I’m about to take a result of a “nudge” aligned with God’s will or my will?
  2. Have I confirmed with a spiritual accountability partner that this “nudge” is from God and not from me?
  3. Is what I’m about to do aligned with my life purpose (why I’m here)?
  4. Is what I’m about to do aligned with my life vision and goals (where I’m going)?
  5. Is what I’m about to do aligned with my guiding principles (what I stand for)?
  6. Is what I’m about to do aligned with my priorities (my key roles and responsibilities)?

Proverbs 21:5 (NIV), “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.”

Reflection:

What beliefs, thoughts and actions cause you to struggle with instant gratification?

Additional Scripture to read and reflect upon: Romans 5:3-4, James 1:12-18, Hebrews 10:36

P.E.A.C.E.

Jay@EagleLaunch.com

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